Short Story ◉ Philosophy

Is Happiness Habit or Chance

Watching Mio find small happiness, Ren and Noa debate the nature of happiness.

  • #happiness
  • #habit
  • #chance
  • #eudaimonia
  • #life

"Mio seems happy today."

Noa smiled. Mio nodded quietly.

"Did something good happen?" Ren asked.

Mio didn't answer, but pointed outside the window. Cherry blossom petals were dancing.

"The cherry blossoms," Noa understood.

Ren pondered. "Can a chance event make someone happy?"

"Chance?" Noa asked back.

"Cherry blossoms blooming is a natural phenomenon. Mio being here today is also chance. Their overlap created happiness."

"But," Noa countered, "isn't the heart that finds cherry blossoms beautiful something Mio has cultivated?"

"Sensitivity, you mean?"

"Yes. Looking at the same blossoms, some feel happy and some don't."

Ren nodded. "Aristotle's eudaimonia. Happiness arises from habitual practice of virtue."

"Habit?"

"Acquiring virtues. Compassion, honesty, courage. By practicing these daily, a happy life is built."

Noa sat by the window. "But no matter how much virtue you accumulate, misfortune can strike."

"True. Epicurus acknowledged that happiness also requires luck."

"So which is it? Habit or chance, which is essential?"

Mio quietly stood up, picked up a single cherry blossom petal, and showed it to them.

"Mio's answer?" Noa asked.

Mio placed the petal in one palm and covered it with her other hand. Wrapping it with both hands.

Ren understood. "Both, you mean."

Mio nodded.

"Chance is the petal, and the receiving hand is habit," Noa put into words.

"Good metaphor," Ren acknowledged. "Petals fall by chance. But if your hand isn't open, you can't catch them."

"The habit of keeping your hand open."

"Yes. Whether you're prepared to perceive happiness."

Noa thought. "So happiness is a collaboration between chance and habit?"

"You could express it that way. Seneca said, 'Luck is what happens when preparation meets opportunity.'"

"Preparation is habit, opportunity is chance."

"Exactly."

Mio returned to her seat and wrote something in her notebook. Then showed it to them.

"Happiness is a verb."

Ren read aloud. "A verb?"

Mio nodded and wrote again. "The act of becoming happy."

"Not a state but a process?" Noa asked.

Mio nodded again.

"Profound," Ren was impressed. "Happiness isn't something to achieve but to practice."

"An accumulation of small daily choices," Noa continued.

"And the flexibility to accept chance."

Mio smiled. A rare occurrence.

Ren organized. "Habit creates the foundation, chance adds color."

"Without foundation, chance can't be utilized."

"Without color, habit becomes monotonous."

Noa took a deep breath. "What about unhappy people?"

"Possibly missing habit or chance, or both," Ren answered.

"Or not prepared to receive chance."

Mio wrote again. "Suffering too, the same."

"Suffering is also habit and chance?" Noa was surprised.

Mio nodded.

"Negative habits and unfortunate chance," Ren said.

"But can you escape from there?"

"Habits can be changed. Chance can't be controlled, but interpretation can."

Noa said quietly. "Stoic philosophy. You can't control external events, but you can choose your response."

"Yes. Epictetus's teaching."

Mio stood up and went to the window again. This time looking at the whole cherry tree.

"What are you thinking now?" Noa asked.

Mio didn't answer, just quietly gazed at the blossoms.

Ren said softly. "She's savoring this moment. That's practicing happiness."

"Mindfulness?"

"Yes. The habit of focusing on now, not past or future."

Noa sat next to Mio. "Happiness isn't far away."

"It's right in front of us," Ren continued. "We just need eyes to see it."

Mio slowly turned around, smiled at them, then looked outside again.

"Mio might be a master of happiness," Noa murmured.

"Few words but rich in practice," Ren acknowledged.

"Is happiness habit or chance?" Noa summarized. "Both, and neither."

"Like a Zen koan."

"But that might be the answer."

The three quietly gazed at the cherry blossoms. Happiness was there. Where habit and chance quietly meet.